Talking to stragers…

Published March 24, 2014 by aimeelou96

They say that talking to strangers is dangerous and to some extent I of course agree, which I suppose you all do?

But without talking to strangers we would never socialise or make friends with anyone around us and half of the people we are close to would not know who we are.

In fact, if I had not of risked talking to a complete stranger over the well known chat service known as BBM, I would never of met my boyfriend… who i have now been with for 3 years.

I of course do not encourage young vulnerable people to go out and meet up with some stranger who they have been talking to over some form of social networking site. I went with my mum, she didn’t know he was a stranger to me; which i should have mentioned to her. But she was there when I first met up with him so I knew that I would be safer than I would have been if I was to have gone alone.

I know that nowadays we cannot be sure who we are talking to and it is a very big risk to do something as silly as i did, but if you do it properly and go with an adult, tell them the truth unlike I did, you will be safe and a good relationship could come from it!

Social networking has helped me find family members I never knew existed and friends I would be lost without… I guess you could say I am lucky that I have not ran into someone dangerous as there are many out there, I suppose my message is to be safe online and if you ever do want to meet someone new, go with an adult or at least tell someone you know where you are going and at what time, so that they can contact you and if you do not reply they can get help if necessary!


I Do Not Understand People Who Flirt At the Gym

Published January 26, 2014 by aimeelou96

Perpetual Plot Hole

Since I happen to think that cake and marshmallows are two of the essential food groups, it’s pretty important that I hit the gym on a regular basis.*
*When I feel like it and am not busy eating cake and marshmallows.

Which means that when I go to the gym, I’m going to burn as many calories as humanly possible**. I’m not going to flirt. I’m not even going to make eye contact with people, just in case they might later recognize me in public after having seen me at the gym.
**So I can eat cake for dinner.

I mean, don’t get me wrong. I have cute workout clothes. They make me feel perky and healthy and dedicated to running.
A miracle, because I hate running. I hate it with the fire of a thousand suns.

And everything goes well for a little while. Running feels freeing and joyous…

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Reconstructive Explanation Of Memory

Published January 25, 2014 by aimeelou96

There are two main studies that looked into reconstructive memory. Firstly Bartlett conducted a study in 1932. He said that we change our memories to fit in with what we already know, even though we believe that we are remembering exactly what happened. He gave participants an extract from an old American Folk story ‘War Of The Ghosts’. He wanted to see if people, when given something unfamiliar to read, would alter any of the information when retelling the story from memory. Participants were asked to read the extract and were later asked to recall the story accurately as they could, this was repeated several times during the following weeks. The results showed that participants found it difficult to remember parts of the story concerning spirits and therefore changed parts of the story to make it easier for them to understand. As the weeks went by the participants recall of the story changed bit by bit. Bartlett concluded that our memory is influenced by our own beliefs and understanding.

The second study was conducted by Wynn and Logie in 1998. They wanted to see if the recall of familiar stories would change in the same way that Bartlett found happened with unfamiliar stories. For this study they asked university students to recall details of their first week at university. They were asked to do this several times throughout the year. The results showed that the accuracy of the students descriptions remained the same no matter how many times they were asked (unlike Bartlett’s study). Wynn and Logie concluded that recall of familiar information will not change over time.

Reconstructive memory is when we change parts of a story to fit our understanding. The more times we recall the story the more things are likely to change. However this is more likely to happen when trying to recall unfamiliar information (secondhand information)

Film Review – The Secret Life Of Walter Mitty (In cinemas now)

Published January 25, 2014 by aimeelou96

Walter Mitty is a fun, adventurous, heart-warming tale of an average man who cannot help but let his mind wander. Walter has a very vivid imagination which sometimes can interfere with his job and his ability to concentrate. He has a crush on a new girl at work, who becomes the main focus of his daydreams.

When he cannot find an important film negative in work, which threatens his job, he sets out on a wild adventure to track down the photographer who sent it. Fighting through many extraordinary battles with sharks and volcanoes Walter starts to doubt he will find what he is looking for.

This film has a very clever turn of events which warms the heart of the viewers and brings a smile to many faces. It is a wonderful family film and I recommend everyone watches it! One of my favourite films to date. Ben Stiller plays Walter Mitty, and he also directed and produced the amazing story.